Parenting can be challenging, even under ideal circumstances. When parents divorce, parenting is even more of a challenge. The conflict that gave rise to the divorce and the divorce itself put children under stress. Helping children cope with this major disruption in their lives requires extra parenting skill. Moreover, a child needs a good relationship with both parents, regardless of how the parents feel about each other.
I encourage divorcing parents to get some coaching on co-parenting from a mental health professional with expertise in this area. Look for a therapist who provides a focused form of counseling that teaches specific strategies to help divorcing parents understand and meet their children’s needs. Many of the therapists who belong to the New York Association of Collaborative Professionals provide co-parenting coaching. http://www.nycollaborativeprofessionals.org/who-is-collaborative-for/children
