Divorce in Westchester County: Why Consider Collaborative?
The court system is structured to set conflicting parties in opposition to each other. By definition, this is adversarial. In theory – justice is attained because the side with the most persuasive argument “wins.” In practice, however, when it comes to dissolving a marriage this theory of justice is not borne out in experience. Nobody wins. A divorcing couple’s “day in court” usually comes at an enormous price, depleting their financial resources and causing emotional damage. Moreover, in Westchester County, the backlog of cases is so long, couples can wait months – even years – to get their day in court. This delay further exacerbates the stress on the divorcing spouses. Of course – there are some situations (cases involving domestic violence, for example) where court action is necessary. In most divorce cases, though, there are no clear-cut villains and victims. Just hurt, angry people caught in a system that … Read More...